They don't listen. You can yell all you want, but even if you do get through to them the damage is done. The enemy has the lead and most likely a decent one. If we wait it out we cut the time we have to fight back or the enemy is satisfied with a low scoring victory.
I'm not asking for this style to play to be removed from the game. I understand how it can be fun, but it shouldn't be impossible for the other team to deal with.